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You Want a Lover, Best Friend, Companion and Confidant—Who Also Happens to Be Your Husband.
You want more laughing, talking and fun. More interest in each other and being on the same team. You want to bring back the spark you had before money, kids, responsibility and life slowly stripped it away and made marriage hard.
You know what you want. So why does it still feel so far away?
Watch this short video to see what's creating the distance—and why changing a few familiar patterns can change the way you experience your marriage.
You want your marriage to feel good again.
He walks into the room and actually wants to tell you about his day.
He reaches for you when he walks past instead of you wondering when you last touched each other.
You're laughing so hard about something completely stupid that neither of you can finish the story.
Something goes wrong and your first thought is, “We'll figure it out,”
instead of wondering how this is about to become another fight.
You know what's going on in his world. He knows what's going on in yours and you still can't get enough of each other.
Relationship Reset helps you identify the patterns creating distance —and shows you how to start creating more opportunities for the connection you actually miss.
Introductory Price $147
Inside Relationship Reset
Is Relationship Reset for me?
Do you...
✔️ Still love each other
✔️ Aren't in crisis
✔️ Aren't planning to divorce
✔️ Simply know the relationship could be better
✔️ Are tired of repeating the same patterns
Then YES!
✔️BREAK REPETITIVE CONFLICT STYLES
✔️FEEL LIKE TEAMMATES INSTEAD OF ROOMMATES
✔️REBUILD CONNECTION AND AFFECTION
✔️HAVE PRODUCTIVE CONVERSATIONS
✔️STOP DRIFTING APART AND START GROWING TOGETHER
They need a roadmap.
Because you've done life like this for so long, you're running on autopilot.
But once you can see the pattern, you finally have somewhere to interrupt it.
You've got a sitter. You're getting ready to go out. He makes one comment and you hear criticism. You snap back. He gets defensive. Twenty minutes later you're both pissed off and neither of you even wants to go.
The problem wasn't date night. The opportunity to connect was hijacked.
You're going to grab lunch, run some errands and actually spend the day together. Then you disagree about money. Suddenly you're arguing about every financial decision you've made for the last five years.
Now you're driving home in silence.
A disagreement that could have lasted ten minutes just stole your entire afternoon.
You could watch something together, talk, laugh, maybe have sex.
Except you're still irritated about something that happened at dinner. He's scrolling. You're scrolling. Nobody reaches for anybody.
Sometimes disconnection isn't about not having enough time together. It's about what happened before you got there.
Time we can't back.
A 30-second conversation in the kitchen about him forgetting to tell you he lost his debit card doesn't have to turn into:
“So you think I'm irresponsible?”
Then defensiveness. An argument. And suddenly nobody's talking for the rest of the day.
Relationship Reset helps you catch the pattern earlier—so a 30-second moment doesn't have to steal the good one that was coming next.
The dirty pan doesn't ruin your Saturday.
He makes a comment. Instead of hearing criticism and getting defensive, you joke that you "pregreased it for him" and move on.
He asks where his laundry is.
This time?
"Probably still in the hamper where you left it."
And you keep doing whatever you were doing.
No fight. No guilt. And one less chore for you.
You haven't had a date night in months...and you're still connected.
You watch a terrible movie after the kids go to bed, make fun of it together and laugh until midnight. Turns out the date was never the connection.
Sex doesn't have to prove you're connected.
You've gotten curious enough to discover the giant teddy bear underneath who's bursting with thoughts and feelings. There's less pressure on sex—and more ways to feel close.
This is what changing the patterns can look like. Less fighting. Less disconnection.
When you're not fighting about who drove the car last and forgot to fill the tank...it's a whole lot easier to just go together—and grab ice cream while you're out.
You're not learning this stuff so you can become better at marriage.
You're learning it so marriage can stop feeling like something you're constantly working on.
So a disagreement doesn't steal Saturday.
So you can ask what he meant instead of spending three hours pissed off about what you think he meant.
Imagine grabbing each other's hands again when walk into the grocery store instead of doing the whole trip in silence.
And while you're there he reminds you that your out of coffee and takes the detour down that aisle for you because he knows you, he thought about you, and you matter to him.
When you're in the middle of an argument and don't know what to say...
You have the Conflict Deck, with prompts like:

When you're convinced you already know exactly what your spouse is thinking...
You have the Curiosity Deck that helps you move from assuming to discovering.
Tell me more…
Can you explain that another way…?
What were you hoping I’d do…?
When every decision feels like a negotiation...
You’ll also have the Field Guide to help you identify what you both value before deciding what the solution should look like:

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Meet Elizabeth
I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, but before any of that, I've lived through some relationship ups and downs myself.
I've been married, divorced, and married again.
And I've spent years helping couples and individuals reconnect when their partner starts feeling more like a roommate than the person they fell in love with.
These days, my mornings usually start with hugging my husband while he makes me coffee.
We talk about movies, physics, psychology—or whatever one of us is interested in that day. We want to know what the other one thinks. We make plans together. We have goals together. We spent a year RVing with our five-year-old and had an absolute blast.
There's no shortage of things to talk about, laugh about or do together.
Not because we have some magical, conflict-free marriage.
Relationship Reset is literally how I approach my own marriage.
The same principles I teach inside the program are the ones I use to stay curious, communicate, work through disagreements, make decisions together and protect the friendship underneath all of it.
And they're the same principles I've spent years using to help individuals and couples create relationships that they feel loved and secure in.
Over the years, I noticed the same thing happening over and over in therapy.
Couples would spend an hour talking through their problems, leave feeling hopeful...and then get home only to end up fighting about what he meant when he asked about dinner or why she rolls her eyes every time he asks a question.
The problem usually wasn't a lack of love, commitment, or even communication.
It was that pesky pattern popping up again—the one that's ruled the relationship for years and just ruined what was supposed to be a lazy Saturday on the couch watching reruns of Friends.
And I don't think you need to analyze your relationship forever to change that.
Relationship Reset gives you simple tools you can use in your very next conversation—even if your spouse never takes the course.
Because when you can recognize the pattern, you don't have to get sucked into it.
He asks about a charge on the credit card. You know exactly where this conversation usually goes.
Except this time, you do something different.
The fight doesn't happen. Date night doesn't get ruined.
And you get to go have fun with your husband instead.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. What if my spouse doesn't want to do this with me?
That's ok, in fact, Relationship Reset was designed to work for individuals. You can absolutely start creating change in your relationship and you don't need your spouse to sign on to do it!
2. Is this therapy? No, therapy is different. This is an educational resource to help you apply new tools to your relationship.
3. How long does it take? The course itself can be completed in a few hours.
4. Is this for couples in crisis (such as on the verge of divorce, infidelity, domestic violence, volatility, toxic, etc)? No, couples with these types of challenges would be better served seeing a therapist and receiving individualized support.
5. What if we've tried counseling already? This isn't counseling but, this course is also an excellent resource for those who are currently in counseling. As a therapist, one of the biggest hurdles I faced with couples in counseling was we only got an hour to hash out problems. Relationship Reset can complement therapy by giving you specific ways to practice new patterns between sessions.
6. Do we have to complete it together? No, again this can be done individually, with your spouse, or do it together separately.
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