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Stop Having the Same Fight

A live, hour-long workshop for changing the pattern — not just naming it.

Imagine feeling supported, having room to breathe, and actually enjoying the people you're doing all this for.

Thursday, August 27th | 7:00 PM CT | LIVE ONLINE

$37

And if you decide to continue into Relationship Reset afterward, your entire $37 workshop investment will be credited toward the program.

Let's Change This...Because You Probably Really Like Your Husband.

You already know the fight. You know how it starts, and you already know how it's going to end before it even really begins.

You've probably read the articles. Maybe even asked a "what's happening right now?" question and had it kind of work — for that one fight.

But knowing one line isn't the same as knowing your pattern. And your pattern is what actually keeps showing up, no matter how the fight starts.

In this hour, we're going to:

  • Map out the exact pattern you and your partner keep falling into — not a generic one, yours

  • Find the moment where the fight could go a different way, and what to do in that moment

  • Talk about why staying regulated matters more than which words you say

  • Leave with something you can actually use the next time it starts happening again

This isn't a lecture. It's a working session with a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) who does this exact work with couples every week — and lives it in her own marriage too.

Here's How Arguments With My Husband Go

You and him will disagree. You'll have strong feelings about different subjects. You'll misread each other. Anyone who tells you they never argue is either lying or very avoidant.

Here's what it actually looks like for us:

We still get loud sometimes.
No one's shouting the other down, but we're still passionate. We still have emotions — they just don't run the show.

We stay on topic.
The thing that happened six months ago doesn't matter. We don't spiral into every hurt we've each experienced.

We table things.
Cooler heads prevail, and sometimes we're at an impasse. We table it and set an intention to come back to it. When that happens, I choose not to sit in my hurt feelings and disrupt a perfectly good evening. We created a container for the conversation, and we go back to it.

We don't always agree.
This absolutely happens. In these moments, we go back to our shared values and goals as a couple — instead of being offended with each other in the moment.

We don't punish each other for days with passive-aggressive behavior.
If one of us is ignoring the other (or feels ignored), we address it. What grounds us is the fact that we — allegedly — love each other, so we choose not to treat each other like shit. Usually we're more hurt by not talking to this person, who's actually one of our favorite people on the planet.

I'm going to show you exactly how to navigate disagreements, misreads, arguments, and conflict with your husband — so they don't turn into the same old song and dance that's been keeping you from actually enjoying your marriage.

And that doesn't mean:
Be nice. Accommodate. Give in. Avoid.
(Crying is totally okay, though.)

If you decide to go further with Relationship Reset afterward, your $37 comes right off the price.

P.S. Spots are limited to keep this interactive — if you're ready to actually change how this goes instead of just talking about it again, grab your seat now.

This workshop is educational in nature and is not a substitute for therapy or mental health treatment. It does not create a therapist-client relationship. If you and your partner are navigating abuse, addiction, or a crisis, please seek support from a licensed provider in your area.

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Hi, I'm Elizabeth!

Couples therapist. Mom of four. Former chronic overfunctioner.

I spent years believing that if I worked harder, anticipated more, fixed more and took responsibility for more, I could make my first marriage work.

I couldn't.

Today, I'm remarried in a relationship that feels like a true partnership.

Not because I found some magical perfect guy.

I learned to get out of my own way. Here's the thing; women are very emotionally attuned...so why not use it!

Whether it's more teamwork, productive conversations, reconnecting after life got busy, or just doing less of the work, we have a ton of power in our relationships that we were never taught to walk in.

That's what I want to help you start doing.